Why is it that we’re so afraid to let ourselves completely go? What is so inhumane and wrong with that? Why do we constantly place ourselves under constraints when society already does that for us? We fight for this constant freedom, speak about this freedom, deeply desire this freedom, yet the freedom which that we really need… we never fight for or attempt to attain; the freedom from our minds, our thoughts, the freedom from ourselves. How can one be truly free when one is always caged in the walls of his/her own thoughts? To truly be free is to be free from all EXTERNAL constraints; this is how society defines it. Society shapes your view on freedom, you are already being chained by not having the opportunity to define freedom for yourself.
Freedom is NOT only to be free from external impediments but ALSO to be free from INTERNAL impediments. How can one be free yet still constrained at the same time by another source? It makes no sense. So while we fight for our freedom each and every day, freedom from these external factors… we also need to fight the battle that takes place within us each and every day; this battle of freeing yourself from your thoughts. Free yourself from your thoughts and free yourself from an overbearing society; then and only then are you truly and genuinely free.
It’s amazing that at this exact moment your soul mate is out there. The person you will end up being with for the rest of your life, the person that will love you endlessly, the person that you will trust completely, the person that will be there for you through thick and thin, the person that will be there to hold you while you cry, the person that will fight with you like no one has but will also love you like no one has, the person that will make you laugh until your stomach hurts; that person is out there somewhere right now!
They may be crying right now and feeling lonely or they may be laughing and smiling. They might be working a tiresome job or they might be sleeping and dreaming. They may be in a relationship, not knowing that it won’t last because YOU’RE the one, you. They may be your friend or the person you despise with all your heart. Your soul mate might be in Greece, in Africa, or on a boat some where in the Atlantic Ocean exploring; they could be any where in the world! Isn’t that amazing? The thought of your love breathing, smiling, laughing, going on with life without knowing that one day they will meet you, they will meet you and both of you will be together and this continuous search of a significant other will finally come to an end.
I find that so amazing. We always tend to look for our soul mates where ever we are… but what if they’re across the world? How will I know if I remain in one place? What if we walk past each other in a coffee shop? How will I know its them who is mine and mine forever? I find this so, so amazing.
They’re out there right now.. I wonder what my soul mate is doing, what he’s feeling, what his aspirations are. I wonder if he’s happy or sad. I just hope he’s okay. You don’t have to find me darling, I’ll find you.